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Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Words can cause pain & motivation too

This is the person who keeps telling me I didn't graduate. I graduated with my Bachelor's in Human Services May 2012, I was 9 months pregnant. A Bachelor's in my family may be insignificant since my dad has a doctorate, but to me it means a lot because I worked very hard for it especially since I went to school throughout my whole pregnancy. Instead of pointing out my flaws & mistakes & telling me I'm a failure. Why don't you congratulate me instead? Stop telling me I don't deserve a trip to Europe or anywhere in the world because I got pregnant before my graduation. Let me tell you I'm glad I got pregnant because no trip around the whole World will ever give me the happiness & memories I shared with my beautiful daughter. Kaylen Faith gave me the most beautiful days of my life & nothing will ever replace that. I'm glad I got pregnant before my graduation, I did graduate with a 3.3GPA & I may not have a job right now, but I am going back to school for my Master's just to prove you I am Not a failure. I'm a grieving mother, if you've lost a loved one in life, you know it's very hard to get your life back on track, but I'm trying. Thank you 💕 

Many times in life we can say hurtful things without meaning it, even towards our own children or parents. Please choose your words wisely! ✌️